Eight Tips For Women Who Want
an Intimate, Bonded Relationship
 

1 Don't have sex too soon. Make sure you take time to know each other.
2Always tell him what you want from him
and from the relationship and what you will do if you don't get it.
3Don't give him the power to make you feel great about yourself. When
you do, you give him the power to make you feel bad about yourself as well.
4 Make it a condition of your relationship that he be as open
and honest with you as you are with him At the first indication that he is not, stop revealing yourself.
5 Don't give more time, energy, love, or commitment then you get.
6 Don't make the relationship too easy for him. When you do,
you are telling him that you value him more the you value yourself.
7 Start the relationship by encouraging the treatment you want.
and discouraging the behavior you do not want.
Remember, actions speak louder then words. people infer what you want from what you accept. If you accept bad behavior, don't be surprised when it continues.
8Be soft yet strong; feminine but competent.
don't hide your strengths or diminish your accomplisments. Be sure he falls in love with the real you

all these came from the book
the seven dumbest relationships mistakes
smart people make
 

by Caroln N. Bushong,L.P.C.